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Tips on Giving the Best Blowjob. Top Story - July 2018.
I don’t like receiving oral sex. I derive no pleasure from it. I’ve had a number of enthusiastic individuals volunteer to change my attitude but I politely turned them down. I’m content with my preference because I know my body. I know what I like.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Things You Should Know About Sex After Pregnancy
Well, I have recently returned to work after giving birth to my third baby, I wrote an article sex and pregnancy a while back, before I gave birth about having sex during pregnancy. I thought I would do a follow up on sex 'after' having a baby. Now I know some of you boys out there might want to switch off, put your fingers in your ears and sing "la la la" really loudly! Some of you girls may even want to switch off now! It isn't something that gets talked about often. I can honestly say in all the baby groups and library sing-song sessions I attended over the last ten months, not one lady has come up to me and said
By Rick Vermunt8 years ago in Filthy
Body Language
Hello people. Do you know how to read body language? Like really know? When having sex, understanding body language is key... If you want to be any good at it, that is. I’m not a medical professional. The only thing I’m kind of professional at is cooking. But, I do consider myself to know how to please a woman, and how to make it so she knows how to please me.
By Fisher King8 years ago in Filthy
What to Do When Your Partner Suddenly Can’t Get It Up
If you’re having regular sex you’ll know only too well that it doesn’t always go to plan. Accidental injuries, furniture malfunctions, broken condoms and unexpected guests…everyone will have a story of sexual mishap. When sex hits a road-block it can break the flow and sometimes it’s difficult to get back on track. When a guy loses his erection it can create an awkward situation where neither partner is quite sure of how to proceed. He may become frustrated or embarrassed, whilst you wonder if this is down to you or if there’s anything you can do to help. There can be many reasons why someone might have difficulty staying hard, ranging from medication side-effects and alcohol use to issues related to performance anxiety and body-image. Regardless of the cause, a one-off difficulty can start to turn into a regular problem. Both partners come to expect that there will be issues with sex, making it hard to relax and go with the moment. Sex therapists suggest that the way a partner responds when this happens can make a huge impact on whether this becomes an on-going problem and the quality of your sex life going forward.
By Dr. Alexandra Richards8 years ago in Filthy
Weirdest Sex Positions Everyone Should Try At Least Once
Most people tend to have a handful of sex positions that they stick to when they're looking for a roll in the hay. It's just human nature to want "tried and true" positions like Doggy Style, Missionary, and (for foreplay) 69. Everyone's done them, and we all know they're pretty decent.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions for Curvy Women
Almost everyone can enjoy sex, no matter your height or weight. What makes intercourse a steamier experience is figuring out which positions are best for you and your partner. Whether it’s doggy or cowgirl, everyone sticks to certain positions that they can get off to — even if it’s constantly one specific position, hey, it’s working for the two of you.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Best Female Masturbation Techniques
As Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just wanna have fun." And while it is fun to have a playmate, it's also fun to do our own thing. No offense, guys or girls—sometimes it's nice to shut the curtains (or not), lie back (or not), and indulge in oneself. There are two types of women in this world: those who masturbate and those who lie. We all do it. Go on, admit it! Nobody’s going to point the finger at you (not before they’ve washed it, anyway).
By Ailish Delaney8 years ago in Filthy
Loud Sex is the Best Sex
When my husband and I lived in our first apartment, I was forever in fear of disturbing the neighbors when we had sex. Our walls were incredibly thin, and we often heard conversations and TV's as we walked the halls of our complex, so I assumed people could hear us have sex. While we lived there sex became kind of "blah", which is a cardinal sin in our marriage, so we would often go have sex in our car to spice things up and make as much noise as we wanted. Being loud just makes it more exciting somehow! Now I'm not saying gurgle and scream like a porn actor, but I would suggest just letting loose a little bit and allowing yourself to really express what you feel. My husband LOVES it when I am loud. It is one of the things that 'gets him there'.
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
What Are the Best Excuses To Avoid Having Sex?
Having sex is one of the best things to show love and affection to your partner. Sex comes with so many great benefits like gaining pure pleasure and satisfaction. Sex… is sometimes something that we don’t want at the moment. Yes, many of us can agree that sex is amazing, but there are times when we just want to sleep that night. There are even times when there isn't a specific reason for not wanting to put out tonight—we just don't want to have sex tonight, even if it's casual sex.
By Lilliana Backman8 years ago in Filthy
Car Sex: The Where's and How's. Top Story - February 2018.
If you and your partner have gotten a little bored in the bedroom, but don't really want to break out the fuzzy handcuffs and paddle, I have a solution for you! Car sex. I know what you're thinking: I am a grown man/woman. I have a perfectly good bedroom, with a door that locks, and plenty of space to move around. Why would I try to get it on in the back seat of my cramped car? I say don't knock it until you try it. Plenty of couples get bored of sex because they sort of fall into a routine with it. Lock the door, get naked, bang one out using the same three positions you like, then go to bed. If that is how you guys want to have a relationship, I think that's great, and honestly, if you have kids as well as a demanding job, sometimes a routine is all you can manage. But if I've said it before I'll say it a million times: try new things with your partner! Doing it in the car can be fun and I guarantee you will feel young again!
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Shower Sex Is A LIE—Opinion
Younger readers- Go away. 18+ Only. How many of us have seen a really steamy (pun intended) shower sex scene on TV and thought "Oh ya that is totally on my bucket list." Well, the reality is way less "amazing," let me tell you. Now I am not a sex expert, but I have a very nice sex life with my husband. We like to try out new things together all the time and we have tried the shower scene sex more than once because I am a hopeless romantic. I want my husband to pick me up, while water is rushing around us, hold me against the shower wall and... well you know. I highly recommend trying lots of different sex things in your own relationship because it can be really great. Don't be shy to ask what each other's fantasies are. You don't have to agree to anything you don't want to do, but how will you know you don't like something if you never try it? Go ahead. Try out different things…just not in the shower. Here is why:
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
