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What Is Consent
Sexual consent is a huge and important topic. In the last year, we have talked more about consent than we ever have on a societal level. Thanks to the explosion of the #MeToo Movement, we are thinking much more critically about consent and how it should be applied in different situations. We are no longer remaining silent on violations of that consent. A lot of people think that they understand what consent is but this doesn't really mean they shouldn't learn more about it. A number of studies have confirmed that despite having a basic understanding of consent, most people still agree with consent violations when presented in specific scenarios despite stating that they are not okay.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Why Do Kids Need to Learn About Sex?
Why do kids need to learn about sex? It's a really common thought to shield children from sexual content. In many places, there are adult content warnings on shows, movies, books, and other forms of entertainment and education. Many people bend the truth about facts of life that are related to sex, such as pregnancy and childbirth. The idea of even mentioning the idea of sex for pleasure around children is still highly taboo in many circles. Society overall seems less concerned with children witnessing violence than sexuality. How did it come to be this way? Why do we have such a strange relationship with something so natural?
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
First Time Oral
Staring into the eye of your man’s BFF boy toy can be intimidating! What do I do? How do I even begin? He’s not even hard yet what do I do next? Rest assured you are not alone! I think everyone was scared the first time! To help you out before the big night, here are some tips you need to know to make it memorable for both of you! And in a good way!
By Friday Night Confessions7 years ago in Filthy
3 Things You Can Do When You’re Feeling Bored in the Bedroom
No matter how hard we try to fight it, eventually things just get boring in the bedroom. It happens to all of us from time to time. Some strategies for combating this problem are very conventional, others tend to be a bit more exotic.
By Marshall Stevenson7 years ago in Filthy
Sexy Bedroom Style Tips and Decor
These should be chosen by partners together so that they are not a source of conflict and so that they suit the needs of everyone who will use the room. It’s mostly about setting up the ambiance and removing unnecessary distractions.
By Isla Wright7 years ago in Filthy
Guide to Oil-Based Lube
Oil-based lube is another way you can increase your sexual pleasure. It can be used if you are with someone or just enjoying some time masturbating. Our bodies produce much of their own lubricants. Saliva is a free and readily available lube. Vulvae also produce their own lubrication. With the body’s natural ability to produce lubrication, why would we want to use a manufactured lube? It can be helpful for anal sex or if a person wants some extra stimulation to help the natural lubrication flowing.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
My Sex Problem Turned Into the Worst Moment of My Life!
I love sex, always have, and truthfully always will! Now, I didn’t just have sex with anybody, he had to float my boat first. I always went for the tall/medium size guy with muscles and a nice smile. Or sometimes I’ll make a stupid mistake and just give myself away (I know this wasn’t good). But I was young, dumb, wild, and free.
By Cocoa K. ✨7 years ago in Filthy
Do You Get Embarrassed Talking About Sex?
Sex can be a difficult topic and many people are easily embarrassed talking about it. There are plenty of reasons why it can be a really uncomfortable topic. It can depend on how a person was raised, their cultural background, their previous experiences, and their religious beliefs. All of these things come together and influence our comfort levels with sex. If the sum of all those things leaves us in an uncomfortable place talking about sex, it can take a lot of conscious effort on our part to get over it.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
What Is Anal Sex?
Anal sex is when something is inserted into the anus. Commonly most people think of a penis being inserted but fingers or a sex toy can also be used. Not everyone is comfortable with the idea of anal sex and that's perfectly okay. As with all kinds of sexual activity, the motto of "different strokes for different folks" applies. There is no right or wrong in enjoying or not enjoying anal play.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
