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Cheap Thrills: Getting It On for Less
So what can be done to give you the satisfaction that you crave, whilst it also not affecting your bank balance too much? It’s a tricky thing to get right, but hopefully I can offer a few tips.
By Craig House7 years ago in Filthy
8 Diet and Lifestyle Tips for a Healthy Sex Life
Just as frequent sex can work wonders for your complexion and health, how healthy you are, mentally and physically, can affect your performance between the sheets. Whether you want to rekindle the long-lost lovemaking sparks or spice existing things up, a few changes in your diet and lifestyle can make it possible.
By Jessica Smith7 years ago in Filthy
Why You Should Be Having Safe Sex
Let me start off by saying, this article is not trying to sway your views on when you should have sex, just that anytime you do have sex, make sure it is safe sex.
By Taylor Kelly7 years ago in Filthy
10 Mistakes You Should Never Make When Giving a Blowjob
Going down on someone, or someone going down on you, can be one of the most pleasurable and intimate of sexual acts... that is, if you do it right. In these days, with such a big stigma around talking about sex, it's pretty common to not communicate enough with your sexual partner about what feels good. It can be an extremely awkward and bad experience, when it really shouldn't be. So here are a few dos and don'ts to ensure an amazing time.
By Kiara King7 years ago in Filthy
Fantasies
Do you seriously want to try something new? Or is it just a fantasy? Today we are going to debunk myths surrounding common (and not so common) fantasies. I’m not really going to talk about “vanilla” fantasies (i.e. sex with a hot man/woman whilst the sun is setting), although these are great too, if that’s what you’re into.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
The Guide to Being an Adult Virgin
Hello! I'm assuming that you are reading this because A, you are a virgin or B, you are just nosy. I'm just kidding by the way, but regardless of what circumstances brought you here, I want to share some insight about being a virgin, especially when you are older.
By Z D7 years ago in Filthy
The Internet Has Ruined Sex for Everybody, and Here’s Why
Let’s begin with the basic understanding that most men are like five-year-olds with shiny, red fire trucks. They want girls to play with those fire trucks, but they’re constantly worried that girls have played with bigger, better, shinier fire trucks. This makes those five-year-olds indignant.
By Aaron Dennis7 years ago in Filthy
Swinging
Brought over from my old blog. I suppose you have all been wondering when I was going to write about swinging. I wanted to wait a little as this blog isn’t just about swinging, its about discovering yourself and exploring. Today though, I have decided it’s time to give you a proper insight into the swinging lifestyle.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
Spice Up Your Love Life
At some point in every relationship we go through a dry patch, a part in our relationship where we feel like sex is lacking, no longer what it used to be or in straightforward terms, boring.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex Baby...
… Let's talk about you and me. Sorry, couldn’t help myself. So the latest news is that here in the UK, the supermarket Sainsbury’s are launching a range of vibrators. They are starting with a range of three, and depending on the demand they will be looking to increase their range.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Frustration in a Hook-Up Culture
As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," whilst that may be absolutely accurate when I am cooking my famous spaghetti Bolognese that has sprinkles of USA flavours in the form of oregano spice, or a taste of southern Spain, with a generous dash of paprika powder, that is not always a good thing when it comes to sex. Is that the collective mental gasps of naysayers echoing in these internet streets? Before we agree to disagree, read on...
By S A Miller7 years ago in Filthy
The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse
Let's talk about the biggest difference between BDSM and abuse. BDSM is often confused with abuse all the time, by people who do not truly understand what BDSM actually is.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Filthy